You are probably surprised after reading the heading of this article. Cheating or having an affair is in different ways.
However, cheating in all its ramifications is sinful in the sight of God. Those who cheat on their lovers are self centered and downplay the emotions of their partners.
If you have ever cheated or planning to cheat on your partner;you perhaps did not intend having an affair with someone else at the expense of your partner but one way or the other you got yourself into the mess with no escape route from it.
Basically, the are two types of cheating - planned and unplanned. Below are the nine types of affair or cheating in a relationship.
1. DO - I- STILL- HAVE-MARKET- VALUE? CHEATING
Out of curiosity and experimentation, you want to test how the opposite sex feels for you. You deliberately cheat on your lover as a way of testing if you're still being liked by the opposite sex and to evaluate how your current appearance attracts the opposite sex. You do not need to cheat on your partner with this excuse. End it and focus on building your relationship.
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2.MIDLIFE CRISIS CHEATING
After growing older, your looks change and you realize that some of your age mates are dying, others getting illnesses that you begin to think that you'll soon join them.So you intentionally try to make your last days memorable and fun by cheating on your spouse. What you need is counseling about getting older not an affair.
3. TIME BOMB CHEATING.
You have had enough with your spouse or lover that you want to break up but you do not know how to tell him or her about your lost of interest in him /her so you resort to cheating with someone else. Hoping that when he finds out, he will call for the termination of the relationship. Why play with your lover's emotions when you can tell him/her you're no longer interested in the relationship? And that you need a break up?
4. COMPARISON CHEATING.
This is very common in newly wedded couples. In the early stage of marriage, both parties are not too sure if they married the right person because of constant misunderstanding between the them. They both begin to compare their spouse to the opposite sex and begin to assume that it would have been better if they married them instead. They cheat on their spouse by going after the person thinking they would have been happier if they married them instead. See your counselor for some advice instead of cheating.
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5.SHOULDER - TO - CRY-ON CHEATING
You're emotionally down because your relationship is full of problems and almost on the verge of dying. You've found a friend of the opposite sex and he seems to understand you and support you in all ways. He encourages, supports and treats you better than your partner. Your intention is not to cheat but before you realized you're in bed with him. You need a professional therapy not a friend of the opposite sex.
6. I CAN'T GET MY NEEDS MET CHEATING
You've found the right guy who is providing all your basic needs just as you wanted. He's offering you almost everything better than your lover but you don't want to break up with him so you are deliberately cheating on him. Ideally, you don't love this person but because he's meeting all your demands, you're having an affair with him. My dear, Build your relationship or break up with your partner in order to be with your new lover .
7.BETTER OFFER CHEATING
After securing a better and honorable job, achieving a university degree you think the bar has been raised that you no longer see your lover as befitting your level of Education or class. You deliberately cheat on him with the opposite sex of your class for your own selfish interest.
8. THE UNINTENTIONAL CHEATING
Given the right time, place and circumstances, almost anyone could become a victim of an affair. Although you're enjoying the affair, inwardly you're feeling guilt and anguish for yourself for having an affair on the blind side of your spouse. Whether married or courting, be careful of this type of affair and avoid being too close to the opposite sex and strangers.
9. GETTING EVEN CHEATING
This is a pay back time affair. Your partner cheated on you or still cheat on you so as a revenge, you also cheat on him. Out of bitterness in your heart, you allowed yourself to be used by the person you're cheating with even though you do not enjoy doing it. My dear, quit the affair and talk to your counselor instead.
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Credit:Barbara and Allan Pease.
Written and edited by Bricy Boateng.
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